Kaden’s Mommy asked:


I would like some insight from anyone who has been divorced or married. I feel as though I’m in a place in my life that most people only dream of, and I just want to do a little bit of a reality check.

I have a 22 month old son whose father is not involved, so I had always thought of dating as a little bit of a hassle. I was born and raised in Wisconsin in a town of about 150 people. Parents have been married 26 years (not always happily, but they love each other), and I’ve just had an average life I guess. Then my sister asks me if I would move to North Carolina with her to help take care of her son when he is born. I’ve always wanted to try the South so within a week my dad has helped me move down there. During that week I go onto Myspace, just curious and sick of the people in the area I live in, and look up people who live in the town down there. I don’t write to anyone until I see the profile of a guy who I could best describe as my dream guy. Played D1 college football, good looking, sounds smart and fun, and, BIG PLUS, he’s single and has a daughter! So I write to him, not expecting him to write back. Sure enough the next day he writes back. The little girl he has all over his Myspace is actually his neice, not his daughter, but he says he loves children and Garth Brooks. We talk steady for the week before I move there (which is WIERD for either of us!!!!) and he actually kind of seems like someone I may want to meet. I decide before moving down that I am going to leave my options open and not look for a relationship. Well, my sister talks me into meeting this Myspace Mystery man, and guess what? He’s just as good on paper as he is in person. Too bad I am not looking for a boyfriend, huh? We keep seeing each other almost every day, and eventually I begin to realize that, like it or not, this guy is just too good to pass up. We start dating seriously, I begin staying at his place all the time and he slowly becomes a really good role model in my son’s life.

A few months later my parents fly down to see me, and my parents fall absolutely in love with my boyfriend (not so much my sister’s boyfriend, though) and tell me that they think I’m going to marry him. These are the same parents who never thought I’d settle down.

Everything goes amazingly well with my boyfriend, especially considering the stressful situation. I have a son whose father isn’t paying child support, doesn’t see him, my boyfriend is in the military and has trust issues that date back to his mother’s five failed marriages, I have no money, etc., etc., etc. Through all of this, we’ve failed to have a real arguement. We are the true compliment of each other’s personalities and even when we lose are cool we still tough it out and work through the issues. (We don’t agree on everything, that’s for dang sure.)

Anyways, fast-track to now. I ended up moving home because things didn’t work out with my sister’s boyfriend (I have a few choice words to describe him) and my boyfriend is about to deploy for three months. So we’re stuck in a position that just isn’t a good one. We are at the point in our relationship where we really need to decide whether we are going to push through and start talking about forever or bid each other farewell. The only problem we had had leading up to this point was his inability to talk about or even acknowledge that he had deep emotions and my hot (but very short lived) temper and tendency to be defensive. We break up for about two weeks while he tries to decide what to do. He wants things to stay the way they are, but I tell him that if they aren’t going to progress there is no point, I don’t want to pressure him and that if it was meant to be we would be together. I am a total wreck but I don’t let him see it because I don’t want to influence his decision. He does miles of soul searching and the end result? He realized we have everything you could want to take it to the next step. Now we are getting a house, everything is still the exact same as before (though he is a much better communicator and I am much less defensive.)

I feel like I could not ask for more. He accepts my son and now that I am getting child support we are talking about, when we get married, asking my son’s father to sign off on rights. We are finding ways to stay financially stable once he is out of the military and we are both in school. He makes me happy like no other and picks up on the little ques that mean the world to me. I am honest and treat him with the respect that he loves to get. We are loyal to each other and I couldn’t tell a white lie to him if my life depended on it. My son absolutely loves him and benefits a lot from the structure he brings into our lives.

Here is the entire point of my question. Does every reach this point in their life? I feel like a lot of people THINK they do simply because they fall in love, but I have thought and thought and just can’t seem to find a
flaw in my story. He makes me happy in every way possible. Emotional, physically, spiritually.. We don’t agree on everything but we agree on the important things. We give and take, we both try our hardest for each other… Is there anything missing?!

man of ape asked:


It’s evident that the US is headed for a crises with all commodities at an all time high and wages re mane moderate for the working class people, we as a working class should bond on this issue. the capitalist system in in need of an overhaul and some socialists ideology is also needed, along with raising the minimum wage

“Manufactured Anger” asked:


?? It’s at at least 9.7%!! That’s high!! How can he be saving jobs, when it has been rising?
Beedo: No, I’m not. I was hoping that McCain would win. $20 says we wouldn’t be in the predicament.
Here is my idea: CUT taxes. This will give people MORE money. They will spend more. There will be more demand and stores will have to employ more people. People NOW HAVE JOBS!

Double Rainbowz asked:


what are they doing shouldn’t they be looking how to take care of their kid

Cedes asked:


I know LBJ has 12,688, and Kobe has over 23,000. I was wondering what the all time high is and what is the likely hood of LeBron beating it? He’s beasting it this year and the Cavs are breaking all kinds of records

Boom Boom Boy asked:


You glance around your room with the serious intent of finding a Gatorade bottle to take a whiz in.

asked:


Can gold hit $1,500?
hay guys can any body help me to summarize and explain this topic plz it should be one and half page of Microsoft office word size 12.here is the link (http://www.docstoc.com/docs/14883342/Can-gold-hit-1500) plz guys

Aunt Acid asked:


http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2010/05/26/spending-food-stamps-time-high-sparking-debate-welfare/
The U.S. is now spending more on food assistance than at any time in its history, sparking a debate over whether the roughly 40 million people now receiving the latest version of food stamps at a cost of $73 billion a year are a symptom of a weak economy or are part of a long-term expansion in welfare and related programs.

right path asked:


Here is a list of all time highest ranking by teenage bowlers

Mohammad Aamer (PAK) 574
Nasim ul Ghani (PAK) 553
Daniel Vettori (NZ) 549
Srinivas Venkat (IND) 472
Umar Gul (PAK) 463