how do i get boys to notice me? when my confidence isn’t at its all time high?

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cait asked:

I just got out of a relationship of about a year I really did love him I’ve moved on and am ready to date new people but no one seems interested how do I get my confidence back up to where it was and how do I get guys interested in me?

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5 Responses to 'how do i get boys to notice me? when my confidence isn’t at its all time high?'

  1. Kenny V - September 27th, 2009 at 12:35 pm

    Go talk to them.. and show them what they are missing.. =P if they get the hint they will be interested in ya =p

  2. ♥PaMmY♥ - September 27th, 2009 at 7:57 pm

    First of all it’s nice easy to talk to someone without boosting your confidence you need to work on your confidence more and by talking to someone who can help you with that. Best of Luck

  3. Tess - September 30th, 2009 at 12:31 am

    Don’t start dating again until you are confident enough. Seeking security in dating is a bad idea and can put unnecessary stress on you and your potential boyfriend.

    Raise your confidence by concentrating on yourself for a while. Do things you enjoy, or pick up a new hobby that you can get good at. Join a sports team, help in the community, start an art class, etc. You may meet guys there! Also, as lame as it sounds, treat yourself to a few new outfits that make you dazzle or get your hair done.

  4. slashgirl_1984 - September 30th, 2009 at 1:40 am

    Just do stuff you feel comfortable and happy doing. Treat yourself to the cinema, to a new haircut, to new clothes… You’ll feel better if you feel comfortable with yourself, your confidence will grow again and when the time is right and you meet the right guy, it’ll happen. Just don’t try to force it, love happens when you aren’t looking for it.

    Good luck!

  5. johnb693 - September 30th, 2009 at 1:13 pm

    Maybe some minor changes will do the trick. Get a new hair do, change your outfits, etc.
    Look in the mirror every day, and tell yourself, just how beautiful you are, and how marvelous you are. It sounds dumb, but we are talking emotions here.
    You have allowed your mind to think negatively, and you have to change that mind set.
    If you feel confident about your looks and your way of thinking, men will pick up on that, and find you more attractive, and open for them to approach you.
    Being sexy, isn’t so much what you wear, but how you wear it, and how you carry yourself.
    Put a little swagger in your walk, let yourself know, that you are worth millions, and any man, should be happy to be with you.
    Put a smile on your face, even if you have to practice it. If you are looking sad, or self conscious, men will pick up on that.
    Don’t worry, you can change this around and will soon be beating men off. One mistake in judgment, isn’t the end of your life, just the beginning.


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