why older men hit on me all the time? a 40 year old successful man with a high status job proposed to me. Ok?

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mandy_15sg asked:

I am curious about what attracts them to me. I am 22, and going on to grad school.

Btw, I am no stunner with model-looks. I look reasonably good.



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22 Responses to 'why older men hit on me all the time? a 40 year old successful man with a high status job proposed to me. Ok?'

  1. K - March 12th, 2009 at 2:11 am

    you answered question yourself

  2. fattypizza - March 12th, 2009 at 12:02 pm

    its just like that, thats how it works

  3. TeamMinions - March 13th, 2009 at 5:30 pm

    Mid life crisis…maybe you flirt and show that i want a daddy type boyfriend or maybe they’re just disgusting ***** old men

  4. Melissa - March 13th, 2009 at 10:20 pm

    CREEPERS!!!

  5. dee - March 16th, 2009 at 5:07 pm

    You probably have a very maternal motherly look. I’m only one year younger than you and I attract the bad boy and blue collar types and i’m really above average in looks.

  6. Erick - March 17th, 2009 at 11:47 am

    no need for an answer you already did

  7. spamgirl259 - March 20th, 2009 at 7:14 am

    i no older guys like 30 wink at me and stuff and i am only 16 ya its creepy older guys Always seem to like way younger women

  8. Poppy - March 21st, 2009 at 6:56 am

    A forty year old man dreams of opportunities with a 22 year old woman. Hell I’m 57 and still dream of it.

  9. spinit23 - March 21st, 2009 at 3:27 pm

    Older men like younger women.

    Its nature. Men are wired to find a woman who will be more likely to care for him after he’s feeble. Its an evolutionary thing. Subconscious.

    Everyone has different taste in looks. Magazines might not lead you to believe you’re beautiful, but that doesnt make it true.

    Older men like me too. It might be because I’m not some 35 year old ‘scorned woman’?? I dont know the exact reasons, every man will have his own reasons for liking you.

  10. Ms. Team Edward Cullen - March 23rd, 2009 at 10:02 am

    No one can actually answer that question, LOL, you have funny problem.

  11. Romanceistheway - March 25th, 2009 at 11:13 pm

    Because your 22..

  12. Old Fart - March 27th, 2009 at 7:40 am

    Oh ya and he will be good to you.

  13. Sureno - March 27th, 2009 at 11:44 am

    You must be some kinda “Heart Breaker” to get that attention.

  14. Smart Girl! - March 30th, 2009 at 7:49 am

    omg, i have the same problem. i’m not terrible looking, but i’m not stunning, and i’m 16. it seems like the only guys that ever flirt with me or anything are guys who are at least 18, and sometimes up to like mid 20′s, i dated a 22 year old for a while. i’m assuming it has something to do with our maturity level or something like that. or maybe innocence

  15. David C - March 30th, 2009 at 8:43 am

    It is pure lust on the part of the man, nothing substantial that will lead to a loving long relationship.

  16. JosieJay - March 30th, 2009 at 4:03 pm

    Stop leading them on and they’ll stop proposing to you.

  17. Veronica B - April 2nd, 2009 at 12:37 am

    Ha ha I got the same problem i am 13 and like a 19 year old asked me out and like ten guys in there 20 told me i am hot. I Don’t really know why though maybe because you are there type or maybe they like your personality and stuff. lol

  18. UnknownGuy - April 2nd, 2009 at 5:34 pm

    maybe you look 40. fyi your not alone, most women get approached by older men, not just you.

  19. * Stars * - April 3rd, 2009 at 11:42 am

    It’s because older men these days don’t want older women since love is not what it used to be a generation ago. It seems now to be all about sex, and they don’t want the old women they want young, agile women lol It’s annoying how you walk to the shops and find men in their 30′s, 40′s even 50′s trying to flirt with you, it’s disgusting, and creepy! I’m 17 and I’m bound to have some old man chatting me up every week. But what can we do about? :(

    I don’t wear revealing clothes or look for attention, I just want to buy a pint of milk and some bread!

  20. Skull Boy - April 6th, 2009 at 12:08 pm

    Men no matter what age they are will always be more attracted to younger women. It’s all genetic. With that said, older men understand that there will always be a certain percentage of younger women who will want to be with them because they have money and are more stable.

  21. Megan M - April 8th, 2009 at 7:33 pm

    That’s funny because I’m seventeen and I had 2 thirty or forty something year old men ask me out at my job in the last month! I have no idea what it is, maybe it’s because we give them more attention then they are used to? But I have to because Im a waitress…

    Good question.

  22. Sugar - April 12th, 2009 at 12:11 am

    Be careful with this type ..most can not be trusted.


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